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Anxiety, Trauma & Emotional Difficulties

When the Past Continues to Affect How You Feel Today.

Sometimes you know exactly why you feel the way you do. Other times, you have no idea.

You might be struggling with anxiety, the emotional impact of past experiences, low self-esteem or reactions that seem to happen automatically, no matter how hard you try to change them.

Whether you understand where those feelings come from or not, IEMT offers an approach to exploring the emotional patterns that may be keeping you stuck.

If you’ve tried talking things through, understanding your reactions or finding ways to manage them, but still feel caught in the same emotional patterns, IEMT offers another approach to consider.

Move Past the Past with IEMT

I’m an Advanced IEMT Practitioner based in Lincoln, offering face-to-face sessions locally and online appointments worldwide. My work focuses on anxiety, emotional responses to difficult experiences, confidence and the beliefs we develop about ourselves. You don’t need to share every detail of a painful memory to explore how it’s affecting you today.

IEMT (Integral Eye Movement Technique) uses guided eye movements while working with emotional responses associated with memories, experiences and beliefs about ourselves. The approach explores how these feelings and patterns affect you in the present, without requiring you to describe every detail of a difficult experience. Sessions are tailored to your individual circumstances.

IEMT can help you break free from the patterns holding you back. Book your session today, in person or via Zoom.

Where am I?

šŸ“ Lincoln, UK — regular weekly sessions from my home practice
šŸ„ Clinic days — at local venues across Lincolnshire
šŸŒ Online via Zoom — available wherever you are

Who I Work With

I work with people experiencing:

• Anxiety, persistent worry and panic-related feelings
• The emotional impact of trauma, PTSD and difficult memories
• Distressing childhood experiences that continue to affect them in adulthood
• Emotional difficulties following abusive, traumatic or painful relationships
• Carrying past relationship experiences into new relationships, including fear, mistrust or insecurity
• Low self-esteem, lack of confidence and imposter syndrome
• Guilt, shame, regret and negative beliefs about themselves
• Fears and phobias, including fear of flying
• Difficult emotions associated with birth experiences
• Recurring emotional reactions and patterns that leave them feeling stuck

IEMT is typically a short-term approach rather than an ongoing programme of weekly appointments. In my practice, many clients attend between one and three sessions, although this varies according to individual needs. Some return later to work on different issues.

How IEMT Works

Difficult experiences can leave us with emotional reactions and beliefs about ourselves that continue long after the original event. Anxiety, fear, shame or self-doubt may appear in situations where we don’t understand why we’re reacting so strongly.

You might find yourself asking:

  • “Why am I like this?”

  • “Why do I still react as if it’s happening now?”

  • “Why can’t I just move on?”

IEMT (Integral Eye Movement Technique) works with two important concepts: imprints of emotion and imprints of identity.

An emotional imprint relates to how we feel. An identity imprint relates to what we’ve come to believe about ourselves.

There’s a difference between “I feel inadequate” and “I am inadequate.” One describes an emotional experience; the other describes a belief about who we are.

What Actually Happens During IEMT?

We start by exploring what’s troubling you now and what you’d like to change. Through a series of carefully structured questions, we work backwards from your current emotional responses to identify earlier memories and experiences that may be connected to them.

I then use specific, guided eye movement patterns as part of the IEMT process, working with the emotional responses and beliefs associated with those experiences. We check how your responses change as we go, with the aim of reducing their emotional impact on your life today.

You don’t need to know why you feel the way you do, or tell me the details of what happened.

What Can IEMT Help You With?

Depending on your individual circumstances, the work may help you:

  • Feel less overwhelmed by anxiety, fear or difficult emotions

  • Experience less emotional distress when recalling painful memories

  • Work with negative beliefs such as “I’m not good enough” or “I always fail”

  • Feel less caught in recurring emotional reactions and patterns

  • Develop greater confidence and a more positive sense of self

Experiences and outcomes vary from person to person.

How is IEMT different?

One of the most distinctive features of IEMT is that you don’t have to tell your story.

IEMT is a non-disclosure approach. I don’t need you to explain what happened, reveal personal details or repeatedly talk through painful experiences. We can work with the emotional response without you having to share the story behind it.

This can be particularly valuable for people who find discussing difficult experiences distressing, or who simply prefer to keep those experiences private.

It can also appeal to professionals working in sensitive or confidential roles, such as emergency services personnel, military personnel and healthcare workers.

A Short-Term Approach

Unlike ongoing programmes of weekly appointments, IEMT is typically offered as short-term work.

In my practice, many clients attend between one and three sessions, although this varies according to individual circumstances. Some people return later to work on different issues.

You remain fully aware and in control throughout the session, and we’ll work at a pace that feels appropriate for you.

Specialist Support for Riders

Alongside my general practice, I also help horse riders overcome nerves, anxiety, and confidence issues in the saddle. If fear or self-doubt is holding you back from enjoying riding, you can find more details on my dedicated IEMT for Equestrians page.

Charlotte EmilyFacebok
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I was really dubious that Fayes "eye voodoo" would work but thought I'd give it a go after hearing such good things about it and I am SO glad I did!!! I didn't initially think it had worked as I was still nervous at the though of cantering in open spaces or jumping much more than a pole on the ground. What I have found though is that it's in actual doing it you realise how much eye voodoo has helped. I still have moments of apprehension but the difference is remarkable. I was out jumping today and not only did I jump doubles, spreads and bigger heights that I have before on my horse, I enjoyed it and never once felt the need to cry when things went wrong or he decided to stick his back legs in the air and buck. Before eye voodoo I have been known to pull up and get off at this point so the fact I happily continued is nothing short of a miracle!
KT CeeFacebok
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I wasn’t sure what to expect when I booked my session but Faye put me at ease from the moment I walked into the room. She had a wonderful aura about her that made me feel safe and in turn enabled me to open up truthfully about the trauma I was struggling with. It is an incredible therapy and I can’t really explain it however some how it works. I’ve been struggling with anxiety caused by having a reactive dog and the fear of other dogs attacking us for no reason. Being open and honest about the cause of my pain I think truly helped Faye do her thing. I walked away with shoulders lighter than ever and have felt more confident taking my dog out for a walk. I can’t recommend this enough! It’s AMAZING! 🤩
Sarah Lou BarkerFacebok
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I saw Faye a few weeks back an I must say wow after various serious falls to the extent of being hospitalised my confidence was knocked with the jumping not great as that is my sport of hobby then for last few years after losing my father an best friend an a very lengthy and bitter legal battle with family anxiety got the better of me to the extent I felt sick just looking at a pole on the floor I booked an appointment with Faye as a last resort before I gave up riding altogether I just wish I had done it years ago I’m now back jumping happily and getting ready for my first competition again no sick feeling no anxiety just smiles and fun again so from the depth of my heart Faye I thank you as after a long time I finally feel like me again and the rest of my problems don’t seem so bad now
Tez BrownFacebok
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what I call the (s@@t shifting session) so I thought I'd give Iemt a go. not knowing what to expect at all really. I went due to my issues with hacking and certain other areas with riding and emotions. the 1st session I did come away wondering and debating if it had worked. I felt no different in my self although tired. what I did notice was that after something had happened be it the horse spooked or was a bit on their toes my reactions was different I didn't panic or become worried. I didn't realise this until after it had happened. I had a second session which this session was interesting and took a bit to work out what was going on in my head. but Faye managed it. now after this session I have been able to go out on a ride with confidence albeit a bit nervous to start with. but I've also managed to hack out on our own. I can highly recommend to anyone thinking and questioning if to book in. it is well worth a session or 2.
Jo-Anne ElyFacebok
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Honest Review for Faye! Loved it! Witchcraft at its best. Faye puts you at ease. She has such knowledge and passion and I think she'd make a great trainer! Thanks to Faye's visit, I no longer get those huge "what if's" when riding and I can talk to myself and settle the situation. I've also managed to shut the door on another unpleasant emotion and am working up to locking it for good - without Faye, I'd have not shut the door! Faye has helped me immensely, and I am now in the throws of training to become an IEMT Practitioner myself! I've Faye to blame for that! Witchcraft!
Hannah GladdingFacebok
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I decided to have an IEMT session with Faye as I had quite bad competition nerves and a general feeling of negativity and a lot of self doubt. I am absolutely gobsmacked at the change, I feel happier on my horses šŸŽ and I’m much happier in my self. I haven’t been out competing yet but I feel very excited about booking some upcoming ones. Highly recommended! Cannot wait to have some more
Louise AllenbyFacebok
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I had a treatment/session with Faye 3 weeks ago. Although I can’t say I had any large trauma, I did have a few ā€˜niggles and things playing on my mind’, I’ve recently started to go to clinics and jump again on my Horse after many years! I’m absolutely loving it, but there was always a doubt/niggle in my head (a few scary moments happened on my horse when he was a youngster) that were popping in my head! Faye told me all about IEMT and I decided to give it a go. It’s absolutely fascinating, the next clinic I attended was so much more relaxed and I didn’t even think about any previous thoughts/apprehensions I had. Infact sat here writing this I’m really having to remember how I felt before. I’ve since done a further jumping clinic and bingo, my head stays in the present! No matter how big or small your ā€˜thing’ is, it’s relevant to you, I recommend šŸ’Æ- thank you Faye x
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I seem to work with a lot of horses who are spoilt, quirky, and quite unruly, and as a freelancer I’m not always seeing them regularly enough to build up a good relationship with them. Recently I’d been finding I’d really lost my confidence handling even some of the easier ones, and I was dreading going to certain jobs. This isn’t me at all, hence why writing this anonymously, as it was really starting to affect my work. I tried Faye not so much as a last resort, but more out of curiosity! And I’m so glad I did. You don’t even have to open up about the root cause of your issue, although I did, so I don’t know if it was talking about it that helped me, or her ā€˜magic powers’, but either way the results were instant for me. Apart from the usual slightly sinking feeling I get on a really windy spooky day, or when I know I’ve got a genuinely quirky horse booked in, all the silly niggles and irrational situations I was imagining could happen, have all disappeared! Even if you can’t link your anxiety back to an actual single incident, which I couldn’t, and it’s just a build up of smaller scenarios over time, definitely give IEMT a try.
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I had IEMT with Faye a couple of months ago. Complete mental block riding my own mare. Following the session doesn't faze me regarding my girl, and more than happy to get on any other horse. Faye is such a kind person. Highly recommend her šŸ‘Œ
Rachel Love-HowesmanFacebok
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I contacted Faye to help with my struggle to ride one of my horses and she has utterly changed our relationship with each other for the better. I had been really confident on my youngster until she spooked and got me off twice. After that the idea of riding her made me feel sick and shaky, even after she had been away for professional schooling. I have ridden for 40 years yet had ended up having to ride her on a lunge line in walk only! As a young, sensitive mare she needed me to be confident and I just couldn’t manage to qualm my nerves in the menage even though on other horses I was very confident. I contacted Faye and we had our first session working on my fear of falling off in the menage. I left that session desperate to get on my mare and with images of me falling replaced with images of me winning a rosette instead! It was weird! Over the weeks some nerves crept back in so I booked a second session with Faye. In this session it emerged quickly through the techniques used that the underlying issue wasn’t all about riding my mare but the trauma from losing my dad and dealing with his estate which had taken months and concluded shortly before I fell off. We worked through the feelings I had from that trauma and since then my attitude to riding my mare has changed from ā€˜omg, I will fall off’ to ā€˜so what if I fall off, it will be ok. Just have fun!’ It has been amazing and even my trainer commented that literally after that second session my whole attitude to riding her changed to be far more confident. In a short time we were cantering in the menage and are now galloping through stubble fields and planning our first outing together. I have also been remembering what happened with my dad differently for the better too. I definitely recommend giving a second session a try as it was astonishing how the underlying problems came up and what I had thought were issues that we were able to dismiss as a result of the techniques used. Thank you Faye - I can honestly say I absolutely adore my mare now and we are having so much fun together and we possibly would never have got here without your help ā˜ŗļø
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